Advice? I was taught how to Latin dance (salsa bachata merengue etc) when I was younger and…?
28th February 2010
… i got some of my friends to get into it. so we go to latin clubs whenever. my friend’s mom caught on to this and asked me to go one time just her and I. My friend and I have been friends since highschool and I don’t know what to think of this but I find it a bit awkward. I don’t want to offend her by saying no but I find it odd she wants to go with just me. should I just go and just think everything is cool or is there something else? I find it kinda weird and I’d feel awkward telling my friend about it. anything would help. thanks.
oh yeah… some of you think my friend is a guy… but she’s actually a girl.
omg. dont do it. pweez =/
February 28th, 2010 at 11:36 pm
um the reason she wants to go with u is one of 2…..
1 she wants u…….enough said
#2 would b that she is slightly embarrassed dancing in front of her child (ur friend) ……
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March 1st, 2010 at 12:19 am
I would say go and have fun… it is a little bit different with salsa dancing, i don’t salsa dance my self but i watch it a lot. there isn’t realy anything sexual about it, when i see people salsa dancing they are constantly swithching partners and never realy come close to eachother they are there to have fun and dance not to get intamante with people.
it would be alot different if she wanted to go to a night club with you where the dancing consist of humping eachothere to death(which is not dancing at all!!) I would be worried.
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bouncer in a bar with salsa dancing every thursday night.
March 1st, 2010 at 12:29 am
since you have been going to latin clubs with your friends it would make sense that she asked you to come to salsa and thinking you would be interested. its possible she asked her daughter and she said she didn’t want to. and it is also possible that she asked some of her friends but they weren’t into salsa dancing. i think you should go and have fun
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:03 am
I think that is an awkward situation just waiting to happen. Just tell her you usually go out to latin clubs with your own group of friends and let her know which club if she wants to drop in for a dance with you or your friends. I would tell your best friend but in a casual way….. btw, your Mom is really interested in salsa dancing and mentioned we could go dancing together, but I told her (what you told her). Just don’t make it embarrassing for either of you when you tell him. Or just be honest and tell her it would make you feel awkward and you like dancing with her but only in a group sitation. Insist her son comes with the two of you if all else fails, keeping it secret would only lead to a convulted mess.
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:40 am
if it makes you uncomfortable and you feel like your friendship is jeopardized, tell her that. She may just be looking for an innocent dance partner just to have fun, but if you think it’s weird, tell her.
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:12 am
I would tell her some time but I am busy with _____ and never go
Good luck ~x~
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:29 am
i think you should go. maybe she just wants to try something new with a person who alread yhas some experience in it. don’t think too much about it.
but, if she tries to hit on you or something, you should politely make your intentions and feelings clear to her. i’m sure if she’s a mature person, she’ll behave decently.
have fun
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:54 am
No, be cool and tell her to bring her dance partner and you will guide them in the dance steps.Don’t tell you friend. By answering the mom firmly she should het the hint.If she does not, just be honest and say youre uncomfortable with it.
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March 1st, 2010 at 3:03 am
omg. dont do it. pweez =/
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